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Sex - What the Bible says about it.

I have my opinions and you have yours.  What is important is what the Bible says about a subject.  If you want absolute truth, the Bible - God's Holy Word is the place to look.  We are His creation, he made us - so He can write the rule book as He wishes; not as we wish. Beginning with the Old Testament we will move from the front to the back ending with the New  Testament.
Just remember, God is Holy and Righteous and He is the judge; but through Faith in His son Jesus Christ He is abundant in mercy and forgiveness.

Ezekiel18:23 Do I take any pleasure in the death of the wicked? declares the Sovereign Lord. Rather, am I not pleased when they turn from their ways and live?
Ezekiel 18:32 For I take no pleasure in the death of anyone, declares the Sovereign Lord. Repent and live!

The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. Instead he is patient with you, not wanting any one to perish, but everyone to come to repentance.

If a person is still alive, they can repent.  After physical death it is too late, a person will face judgement.
If we want to choose Jesus Christ, we come to Him just as we are and ask Him to save us and to direct our lives.  The Bible says absolutely that he will!

Jesus says in Matthew17 “Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them. 18 For truly I tell you, until heaven and earth disappear, not the smallest letter, not the least stroke of a pen, will by any means disappear from the Law until everything is accomplished.


Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever.

God created the sexual urge in order for mankind on the earth to continue to exist.  He also made this a very urgent and pleasant experience.  Sex within the boundaries of marriage is a wonderful and beautiful experience that the Lord blesses.  When sex is experienced outside of marriage, complications arise.  Woman was created to be a help that just fit the needs of man.  Man was to love the woman, and the woman was to respect the man.  Love and respect are two different actions, when these get mixed up the relationship suffers.

 

There were sexual problems all the way back in Genesis, many years before the Law and the 10 commandments were spelled out in around 1500 B.C.  Remember 1500 B.C. was when the nation of Israel marched out of Egypt and then wandered in the Desert for 40 years.

 

In Genesis Chapter 19 Sodom and Gomorrah are destroyed because of the sexual perversion that was out of control.

 

THE 10 COMMANDMENTS - Exodus Chapter 20

2  "I am the LORD your God, who brought you out of Egypt, out of the land of slavery.

3  "You shall have no other gods before me.

4  "You shall not make for yourself an idol in the form of anything in heaven above or on the earth beneath or in the waters below.

5  You shall not bow down to them or worship them; for I, the LORD your God, am a jealous God, punishing the children for the sin of the fathers to the third and fourth generation of those who hate me,

6  but showing love to a thousand generations of those who love me and keep my commandments.

7  "You shall not misuse the name of the LORD your God, for the LORD will not hold anyone guiltless who misuses his name.

8  "Remember the Sabbath day by keeping it holy.

9  Six days you shall labor and do all your work,

10  but the seventh day is a Sabbath to the LORD your God. On it you shall not do any work, neither you, nor your son or daughter, nor your manservant or maidservant, nor your animals, nor the alien within 20:1  And God spoke all these words:

your gates.

11  For in six days the LORD made the heavens and the earth, the sea, and all that is in them, but he rested on the seventh day. Therefore the LORD blessed the Sabbath day and made it holy.

12  "Honor your father and your mother, so that you may live long in the land the LORD your God is giving you.

13  "You shall not murder.

14  "You shall not commit adultery.

15  "You shall not steal.

16  "You shall not give false testimony against your neighbor.

17  "You shall not covet your neighbor's house. You shall not covet your neighbor's wife, or his manservant or maidservant, his ox or donkey, or anything that belongs to your neighbor."

18  When the people saw the thunder and lightning and heard the trumpet and saw the mountain in smoke, they trembled with fear. They stayed at a distance

19  and said to Moses, "Speak to us yourself and we will listen. But do not have God speak to us or we will die."

20  Moses said to the people, "Do not be afraid. God has come to test you, so that the fear of God will be with you to keep you from sinning."

 

Notice verse 20.  Fear is a good thing, when we see God’s disapproval and judgment concerning sinful actions; it makes us think before we continue.

 

UNLAWFUL SEXUAL RELATIONS - Leviticus Chapter 18

 

18:1  The LORD said to Moses,

2  "Speak to the Israelites and say to them: 'I am the LORD your God.

3  You must not do as they do in Egypt, where you used to live, and you must not do as they do in the land of Canaan, where I am bringing you. Do not follow their practices.

4  You must obey my laws and be careful to follow my decrees. I am the LORD your God.

5  Keep my decrees and laws, for the man who obeys them will live by them. I am the LORD.

6  "'No one is to approach any close relative to have sexual relations. I am the LORD.

7  "'Do not dishonor your father by having sexual relations with your mother. She is your mother; do not have relations with her.

8  "'Do not have sexual relations with your father's wife; that would dishonor your father.

9  "'Do not have sexual relations with your sister, either your father's daughter or your mother's daughter, whether she was born in the same home or elsewhere.

10  "'Do not have sexual relations with your son's daughter or your daughter's daughter; that would dishonor you.

11  "'Do not have sexual relations with the daughter of your father's wife, born to your father; she is your sister.

12  "'Do not have sexual relations with your father's sister; she is your father's close relative.

13  "'Do not have sexual relations with your mother's sister, because she is your mother's close relative.

14  "'Do not dishonor your father's brother by approaching his wife to have sexual relations; she is your aunt.

15  "'Do not have sexual relations with your daughter-in-law. She is your son's wife; do not have relations with her.

16  "'Do not have sexual relations with your brother's wife; that would dishonor your brother.

17  "'Do not have sexual relations with both a woman and her daughter. Do not have sexual relations with either her son's daughter or her daughter's daughter; they are her close relatives. That is wickedness.

18  "'Do not take your wife's sister as a rival wife and have sexual relations with her while your wife is living.

19  "'Do not approach a woman to have sexual relations during the uncleanness of her monthly period.

20  "'Do not have sexual relations with your neighbor's wife and defile yourself with her.

21  "'Do not give any of your children to be sacrificed to Molech, for you must not profane the name of your God. I am the LORD.

22  "'Do not lie with a man as one lies with a woman; that is detestable.

23  "'Do not have sexual relations with an animal and defile yourself with it. A woman must not present herself to an animal to have sexual relations with it; that is a perversion.

24  "'Do not defile yourselves in any of these ways, because this is how the nations that I am going to drive out before you became defiled.

25  Even the land was defiled; so I punished it for its sin, and the land vomited out its inhabitants.

26  But you must keep my decrees and my laws. The native-born and the aliens living among you must not do any of these detestable things,

27  for all these things were done by the people who lived in the land before you, and the land became defiled.

28  And if you defile the land, it will vomit you out as it vomited out the nations that were before you.

29  "'Everyone who does any of these detestable things--such persons must be cut off from their people.

30  Keep my requirements and do not follow any of the detestable customs that were practiced before you came and do not defile yourselves with them. I am the LORD your God.'"

 

PUNISHMENTS for those broken laws - Leviticus Chapter 20

 

9  "'If anyone curses his father or mother, he must be put to death. He has cursed his father or his mother, and his blood will be on his own head.

10  "'If a man commits adultery with another man's wife--with the wife of his neighbor--both the adulterer and the adulteress must be put to death.

11  "'If a man sleeps with his father's wife, he has dishonored his father. Both the man and the woman must be put to death; their blood will be on their own heads.

12  "'If a man sleeps with his daughter-in-law, both of them must be put to death. What they have done is a perversion; their blood will be on their own heads.

13  "'If a man lies with a man as one lies with a woman, both of them have done what is detestable. They must be put to death; their blood will be on their own heads.

14  "'If a man marries both a woman and her mother, it is wicked. Both he and they must be burned in the fire, so that no wickedness will be among you.

15  "'If a man has sexual relations with an animal, he must be put to death, and you must kill the animal.

16  "'If a woman approaches an animal to have sexual relations with it, kill both the woman and the animal. They must be put to death; their blood will be on their own heads.

17  "'If a man marries his sister, the daughter of either his father or his mother, and they have sexual relations, it is a disgrace. They must be cut off before the eyes of their people. He has dishonored his sister and will be held responsible.

18  "'If a man lies with a woman during her monthly period and has sexual relations with her, he has exposed the source of her flow, and she has also uncovered it. Both of them must be cut off from their people.

19  "'Do not have sexual relations with the sister of either your mother or your father, for that would dishonor a close relative; both of you would be held responsible.

20  "'If a man sleeps with his aunt, he has dishonored his uncle. They will be held responsible; they will die childless.

21  "'If a man marries his brother's wife, it is an act of impurity; he has dishonored his brother. They will be childless.

22  "'Keep all my decrees and laws and follow them, so that the land where I am bringing you to live may not vomit you out.

23  You must not live according to the customs of the nations I am going to drive out before you. Because they did all these things, I abhorred them.

24  But I said to you, "You will possess their land; I will give it to you as an inheritance, a land flowing with milk and honey." I am the LORD your God, who has set you apart from the nations.

25  "'You must therefore make a distinction between clean and unclean animals and between unclean and clean birds. Do not defile yourselves by any animal or bird or anything that moves along the ground--those which I have set apart as unclean for you.

26  You are to be holy to me because I, the LORD, am holy, and I have set you apart from the nations to be my own.

27  "'A man or woman who is a medium or spiritist among you must be put to death. You are to stone them; their blood will be on their own heads.'"

 

Frightening in the least.  Thank God for his mercy through Jesus Christ that he grants us by faith.

 

WARNING AGAINST ADULTERY - Proverbs Chapter 5

 

5:1  My son, pay attention to my wisdom, listen well to my words of insight,

2  that you may maintain discretion and your lips may preserve knowledge.

3  For the lips of an adulteress drip honey, and her speech is smoother than oil;

4  but in the end she is bitter as gall, sharp as a double-edged sword.

5  Her feet go down to death; her steps lead straight to the grave.

6  She gives no thought to the way of life; her paths are crooked, but she knows it not.

7  Now then, my sons, listen to me; do not turn aside from what I say.

8  Keep to a path far from her, do not go near the door of her house,

9  lest you give your best strength to others and your years to one who is cruel,

10  lest strangers feast on your wealth and your toil enrich another man's house.

11  At the end of your life you will groan, when your flesh and body are spent.

12  You will say, "How I hated discipline! How my heart spurned correction!

13  I would not obey my teachers or listen to my instructors.

14  I have come to the brink of utter ruin in the midst of the whole assembly."

15  Drink water from your own cistern, running water from your own well.

16  Should your springs overflow in the streets, your streams of water in the public squares?

17  Let them be yours alone, never to be shared with strangers.

18  May your fountain be blessed, and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth.

19  A loving doe, a graceful deer-- may her breasts satisfy you always, may you ever be captivated by her love.

20  Why be captivated, my son, by an adulteress? Why embrace the bosom of another man's wife?

21  For a man's ways are in full view of the LORD, and he examines all his paths.

22  The evil deeds of a wicked man ensnare him; the cords of his sin hold him fast.

23  He will die for lack of discipline, led astray by his own great folly.

 

WARNING CONTINUED – Proverbs Chapter 7

 

7:1  My son, keep my words and store up my commands within you.

2  Keep my commands and you will live; guard my teachings as the apple of your eye.

3  Bind them on your fingers; write them on the tablet of your heart.

4  Say to wisdom, "You are my sister," and call understanding your kinsman;

5  they will keep you from the adulteress, from the wayward wife with her seductive words.

6  At the window of my house I looked out through the lattice.

7  I saw among the simple, I noticed among the young men, a youth who lacked judgment.

8  He was going down the street near her corner, walking along in the direction of her house

9  at twilight, as the day was fading, as the dark of night set in.

10  Then out came a woman to meet him, dressed like a prostitute and with crafty intent.

11  (She is loud and defiant, her feet never stay at home;

12  now in the street, now in the squares, at every corner she lurks.)

13  She took hold of him and kissed him and with a brazen face she said:

14  "I have fellowship offerings at home; today I fulfilled my vows.

15  So I came out to meet you; I looked for you and have found you!

16  I have covered my bed with colored linens from Egypt.

17  I have perfumed my bed with myrrh, aloes and cinnamon.

18  Come, let's drink deep of love till morning; let's enjoy ourselves with love!

19  My husband is not at home; he has gone on a long journey.

20  He took his purse filled with money and will not be home till full moon."

21  With persuasive words she led him astray; she seduced him with her smooth talk.

22  All at once he followed her like an ox going to the slaughter, like a deer stepping into a noose

23  till an arrow pierces his liver, like a bird darting into a snare, little knowing it will cost him his life.

24  Now then, my sons, listen to me; pay attention to what I say.

25  Do not let your heart turn to her ways or stray into her paths.

26  Many are the victims she has brought down; her slain are a mighty throng.

27  Her house is a highway to the grave, leading down to the chambers of death.

 

TWO ATTENTION GRABBERS

 

Proverbs 22:14  The mouth of an adulteress is a deep pit; he who is under the Lord's wrath will fall into it.

 

Ecclesiastes 7:26  I find more bitter than death the woman who is a snare, whose heart is a trap and whose hands are chains. The man who pleases God will escape her, but the sinner she will ensnare.

 

The two verses above get our attention.  We do not want God’s wrath, we want his mercy.  We can see why the Fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom.

 

God honors repentance.  When we confess our sins before Him and ask for his help he grants us His mercy.  He blesses those who follow and please him.

 

Psalms 103 is a great example of His mercy.

 

103:1  Of David. Praise the LORD, O my soul; all my inmost being, praise his holy name.

2  Praise the LORD, O my soul, and forget not all his benefits--

3  who forgives all your sins and heals all your diseases,

4  who redeems your life from the pit and crowns you with love and compassion,

5  who satisfies your desires with good things so that your youth is renewed like the eagle's.

6  The LORD works righteousness and justice for all the oppressed.

7  He made known his ways to Moses, his deeds to the people of Israel:

8  The LORD is compassionate and gracious, slow to anger, abounding in love.

9  He will not always accuse, nor will he harbor his anger forever;

10  he does not treat us as our sins deserve or repay us according to our iniquities.

11  For as high as the heavens are above the earth, so great is his love for those who fear him;

12  as far as the east is from the west, so far has he removed our transgressions from us.

13  As a father has compassion on his children, so the LORD has compassion on those who fear him;

14  for he knows how we are formed, he remembers that we are dust.

15  As for man, his days are like grass, he flourishes like a flower of the field;

16  the wind blows over it and it is gone, and its place remembers it no more.

17  But from everlasting to everlasting the Lord's love is with those who fear him, and his righteousness with their children's children--

18  with those who keep his covenant and remember to obey his precepts.

Romans 1:18 The wrath of God is being revealed from heaven against all the godlessness and wickedness of people, who suppress the truth by their wickedness, 19 since what may be known about God is plain to them, because God has made it plain to them. 20 For since the creation of the world God’s invisible qualities—his eternal power and divine nature—have been clearly seen, being understood from what has been made, so that people are without excuse.

21 For although they knew God, they neither glorified him as God nor gave thanks to him, but their thinking became futile and their foolish hearts were darkened. 22 Although they claimed to be wise, they became fools 23 and exchanged the glory of the immortal God for images made to look like a mortal human being and birds and animals and reptiles.

24 Therefore God gave them over in the sinful desires of their hearts to sexual impurity for the degrading of their bodies with one another. 25 They exchanged the truth about God for a lie, and worshiped and served created things rather than the Creator—who is forever praised. Amen.

26 Because of this, God gave them over to shameful lusts. Even their women exchanged natural sexual relations for unnatural ones. 27 In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed shameful acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their error.

28 Furthermore, just as they did not think it worthwhile to retain the knowledge of God, so God gave them over to a depraved mind, so that they do what ought not to be done. 29 They have become filled with every kind of wickedness, evil, greed and depravity. They are full of envy, murder, strife, deceit and malice. They are gossips, 30 slanderers, God-haters, insolent, arrogant and boastful; they invent ways of doing evil; they disobey their parents; 31 they have no understanding, no fidelity, no love, no mercy. 32 Although they know God’s righteous decree that those who do such things deserve death, they not only continue to do these very things but also approve of those who practice them.

1 Cor. 6:9 Or do you not know that wrongdoers will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have sex with men[a] 10 nor thieves nor the greedy nor drunkards nor slanderers nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. 11 And that is what some of you were. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.

Eph. 5:3 But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God’s holy people. 4 Nor should there be obscenity, foolish talk or coarse joking, which are out of place, but rather thanksgiving. 5 For of this you can be sure: No immoral, impure or greedy person—such a person is an idolater—has any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God.[a] 6 Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of such things God’s wrath comes on those who are disobedient. 7 Therefore do not be partners with them.


Gal 5:19 The acts of the flesh are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery; 20 idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions 21 and envy; drunkenness, orgies, and the like. I warn you, as I did before, that those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God.

 Ezekiel18:23 Do I take any pleasure in the death of the wicked? declares the Sovereign Lord. Rather, am I not pleased when they turn from their ways and live?
Ezekiel 18:32 For I take no pleasure in the death of anyone, declares the Sovereign Lord. Repent and live!

The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. Instead he is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance.

If a person is still alive, they can repent.  After physical death it is too late, a person will face judgement.
If we want to choose Jesus Christ, we come to Him just as we are and ask Him to save us and to direct our lives.  The Bible says absolutely that he will!
John 8:1 but Jesus went to the Mount of Olives.

2 At dawn he appeared again in the temple courts, where all the people gathered around him, and he sat down to teach them. 3 The teachers of the law and the Pharisees brought in a woman caught in adultery. They made her stand before the group 4 and said to Jesus, “Teacher, this woman was caught in the act of adultery. 5 In the Law Moses commanded us to stone such women. Now what do you say?” 6 They were using this question as a trap, in order to have a basis for accusing him.

But Jesus bent down and started to write on the ground with his finger. 7 When they kept on questioning him, he straightened up and said to them, “Let any one of you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone at her.” 8 Again he stooped down and wrote on the ground.

9 At this, those who heard began to go away one at a time, the older ones first, until only Jesus was left, with the woman still standing there. 10 Jesus straightened up and asked her, “Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?”

11 “No one, sir,” she said.

“Then neither do I condemn you,” Jesus declared. “Go now and leave your life of sin.”